Sleeping Insecurities

15.10.06

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Why is it that when you have a problem with someone, you don’t always talk about it with the person you’re having the problem with? You end up talking to someone else, either looking for advice or just a place to let out your feelings. Then that person becomes too close, you end up having issues, then run to someone else. I think I mentioned something like this in a previous post.

Anyway, I’ve got a busy week coming up. There’s a midterm on Tuesday and Thursday, Psych and Anthro, respectively. I’ve also got some stats homework I need to get done with my group, as soon as we figure out what we’re going to do. I’ve also got some other errands to take care of, etc. It’s a stressful time right now and I’m just happy for the moments during the day when I can smile or laugh. :blank:

I’ve been falling off the movie reviews and such because I’ve not the time. :frown: I have a bunch that I’ve saved to my computer to watch a later time, but keep renting more, so the list piles up. Right now, I’ve got Imagine Me and You, Sideways, Caché, and a couple more movies that I need to watch.

I’m sure I had something more important to discuss, but I can’t think too much of it right now since I’m a bit sleepy and tired. Anyway, I’ll finish this short to go continue studying for Psych. Good night all.

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Manila replied:

Sunday, October 15, 2006 @ 5:50 am GMT-8

Good question: why don’t we address the person we have problems with directly? I guess that would sometimes make things easier. But I guess we are simply afraid how such a discussion might turn out, so we seek advice first before eventually confronting the person with the problems we have (if we do so).

You say that you don’t smile or laugh that often. Don’t!! Try to laugh as much as you can - a positive attitude - doesn’t matter how crappy your day will be or was - is the best way to solve things

Take care :heart:
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Kavitha declared:

Sunday, October 15, 2006 @ 7:08 pm GMT-8

I guess we talk about it with someone else because we want a unbiased view point or just someone to listen to it, without freaking out or getting judgemental.
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nadine answered:

Sunday, October 15, 2006 @ 10:54 pm GMT-8

‘m usually too afrad of hurting the persons feelings to take it up with them directly.. but i stll feel the need to vent.

good luck on your midterms
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Sanne shouted:

Monday, October 16, 2006 @ 12:33 am GMT-8

I recognise that. Talking about others about a problem but not mentioning it to the person itself. Really bad habit actually.
Good luck with all your homework!
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KAt declared:

Monday, October 16, 2006 @ 4:18 am GMT-8

Nice site! haha i wish i could code wordpress layouts….did you use a tutorial on how to make a layout?? causei would really like to know how to make one

And yeah good question about the person not talking to the other person directly….
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Vera said:

Tuesday, October 17, 2006 @ 7:40 am GMT-8

Mmm… tough one. Dunno, but I suppose this kind of thing happens when you care for said person a lot, and don’t want to hurt him/her… but you DO want to talk, so er you go to the best friend and ask for advice
Then again, talking to the person himself (herself) might be good too… I didn’t do it, but Marian Keyes’ novel (Lucy Sullivan is getting married) proves it (aah! These chick lits).

Oh busy busy: good luck with those exams. It sounds though.

P.S. I love how you tell people, who like to notify that they’re from a commenting community, off. Go girl!
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Julie shouted:

Tuesday, October 17, 2006 @ 9:21 am GMT-8

Good luck with your exams!! It is interesting about that first point you made, not talking to the person you have the problem with. I think it’s cause we don’t want to be confrontational and hurt people’s feelings so we want to have second opinoins on whether it’s really something to pick on or if it should be ignored.
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sirena stated:

Tuesday, October 17, 2006 @ 9:51 pm GMT-8

it’s cause we like to be difficult and paranoid and running around to other people. hahaha. o_O

good luck with exams. how was today’s midterm? what psyche are you taking? i have an abnormal psyche exam & paper tomorrow.
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Carmen remarked:

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 @ 1:24 pm GMT-8

I’m all round shy, so I always just vent myself in my writing, or to my other friends. Give it a week or so, and I’m usually fine.

Good luck with your studying!
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Layna announced:

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 @ 4:36 pm GMT-8

I guess we liek to talk to other people instead because we don’t really want to confront the situation, we just want to rant about it to someone who’ll listen. Of course its better to rationally discuss the problem with the person involved, but we don’t always do that :dead:

Good luck on your Psych and Anthro midterms! I hope they’re easy and you ace them :biggrin:
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Catherine answered:

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 @ 5:54 pm GMT-8

That’s a good question. In a situation like that I also turn to someone for advice and support, especially if I know my problem might hurt the person I have a problem with. There are just certain things I can talk to people about and certain things I can’t. I suppose that’s why I have a few people I go to for advice.
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Emma remarked:

Friday, October 20, 2006 @ 1:11 pm GMT-8

Good luck studying :blush:
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