Comments on: Rules Of Love http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/ Fri, 15 Jan 2010 13:31:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Rilla http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1679 Rilla Wed, 22 Aug 2007 06:53:51 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1679 I'm not too sure what rules you're talking about exactly, but well, I do try to set myself a "limit" to liking someone, to avoid getting hurt perhaps. In the end though, I usually find I've liked him more than I knew myself. This limit doesn't work out... But if you mean... Say, "standards" we actually set for our other half, e.g. must be intelligent, tall, sporty etc etc. They get overridden far too easily for me. And I perceive that as a bad thing. :( I’m not too sure what rules you’re talking about exactly, but well, I do try to set myself a “limit” to liking someone, to avoid getting hurt perhaps. In the end though, I usually find I’ve liked him more than I knew myself. This limit doesn’t work out…

But if you mean… Say, “standards” we actually set for our other half, e.g. must be intelligent, tall, sporty etc etc. They get overridden far too easily for me. And I perceive that as a bad thing. :(

]]> By: Chiem http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1678 Chiem Wed, 22 Aug 2007 03:38:29 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1678 First, I want to thank you for your comment on my entry about my grandmother. Yeah, I even think about that, but she wants to live, and my relatives don't want her to go even though her bad characters are shown up more and more. I personally think there should be some rules in a relationship, like rule of sex and rule of honesty. That would make the relationship last longer. BTW, your top image is so nice. It's so adorable! First, I want to thank you for your comment on my entry about my grandmother. Yeah, I even think about that, but she wants to live, and my relatives don’t want her to go even though her bad characters are shown up more and more.

I personally think there should be some rules in a relationship, like rule of sex and rule of honesty. That would make the relationship last longer.

BTW, your top image is so nice. It’s so adorable!

]]> By: Mallory http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1676 Mallory Mon, 20 Aug 2007 12:25:25 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1676 I think rules in relationships are more like guidelines: you can use them to see who this person really is and how they treat you. If they break certain rules (like hitting you or treating you like dirt) then they're not worth anything at all. But if they break little rules and you love them a lot, it doesn't really matter. ^^ I think rules in relationships are more like guidelines: you can use them to see who this person really is and how they treat you. If they break certain rules (like hitting you or treating you like dirt) then they’re not worth anything at all. But if they break little rules and you love them a lot, it doesn’t really matter. ^^

]]> By: Musme http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1675 Musme Sun, 19 Aug 2007 03:30:49 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1675 I made up this rule and made a promise that for four years (last two high school years & first two college years) I wasn't going to date any guys. So far so good. I'm not sure if you mean that. If I make up rules during a relationship, I think I'd follow them. I very anal and just ... weird I guess. LOL ... Did I misunderstand your question? Somehow I feel like I did hahahah I made up this rule and made a promise that for four years (last two high school years & first two college years) I wasn’t going to date any guys. So far so good. I’m not sure if you mean that. If I make up rules during a relationship, I think I’d follow them. I very anal and just … weird I guess. LOL … Did I misunderstand your question? Somehow I feel like I did hahahah

]]> By: Mari http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1672 Mari Fri, 17 Aug 2007 05:13:09 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1672 Mari agrees with Stockton Boy's second comment. Men do really get hurt in relationships too. Mari's mother says things to Mari's father...and just because he doesn't cry about it doesn't mean that didn't hurt him. He'll still be thinking about it days later, and maybe let his thoughts slip out to one of his kids while having a smoke. It's easy to deal with emotions if you always let them out like most of us women do. It's perplexed Mari as to what the hell men do with their emotions ever since Mari realised they have them. Mari agrees with Stockton Boy’s second comment. Men do really get hurt in relationships too. Mari’s mother says things to Mari’s father…and just because he doesn’t cry about it doesn’t mean that didn’t hurt him. He’ll still be thinking about it days later, and maybe let his thoughts slip out to one of his kids while having a smoke.

It’s easy to deal with emotions if you always let them out like most of us women do. It’s perplexed Mari as to what the hell men do with their emotions ever since Mari realised they have them.

]]> By: Tiffany http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1671 Tiffany Fri, 17 Aug 2007 01:47:14 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1671 Gosh, I would I could answer that. I don't think I've made rules in the past though. Well, not relationship-wise. I've made rules for myself (like no kissing if I'm not dating the person, etc. lol) but I used to break them because I had a hard time saying "no" Gosh, I would I could answer that. I don’t think I’ve made rules in the past though. Well, not relationship-wise. I’ve made rules for myself (like no kissing if I’m not dating the person, etc. lol) but I used to break them because I had a hard time saying “no”

]]> By: Julie http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1670 Julie Thu, 16 Aug 2007 02:30:35 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1670 You've got a good question there. I think we do make rules to avoid bad people, but we break them when someone proves to be trustworthy and the rules seem unnecessary. If that makes sense. You’ve got a good question there. I think we do make rules to avoid bad people, but we break them when someone proves to be trustworthy and the rules seem unnecessary. If that makes sense.

]]> By: Jenn http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1669 Jenn Wed, 15 Aug 2007 17:27:47 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1669 Honestly, I try not to think about all of that too much. I used to, and it just confused me and upset me. Now I just go with the flow of things and let what happens, happen. Honestly, I try not to think about all of that too much. I used to, and it just confused me and upset me.

Now I just go with the flow of things and let what happens, happen.

]]> By: Kristin http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1668 Kristin Wed, 15 Aug 2007 17:04:26 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1668 I know rules are important, but I really don't like them much. I think that rules are made to be broken. I know rules are important, but I really don’t like them much. I think that rules are made to be broken.

]]> By: Stockton Boy http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1667 Stockton Boy Tue, 14 Aug 2007 01:05:56 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/2007/rules-of-love/#comment-1667 I will disagree with Tiffany. Just because a man doesn't cry, doesn't post his personal feeling on a internet blog, doesn't talk about it, doesn't mean that we are not that hurt and effected. I actually think that guys will be more hurt then women. We may not cry and piss and moan about it. But our insides will be torn asunder. We get hurt, maybe not as often, but when there is something to hurt us, it can cause quite some emotional damage. And just because some of us will "move on" really quick don't think that he has really moved on. A buddy of mine for example loves this girl that he was with two years ago. He really loves her now. Long story of hurt and betrayal on both parts. And even though he found a new girl a month or so after that was not because he moved on and no longer cares about her (he wants nothing more then to be with her), but more because he needed someone to hold and to feel special. He doesn't cry about it to all of his friends or tells the entire internet world, but I can see in his eyes that he is still hurt by that girl. I think that it is very wrong to say that guys aren't as affected as girls. Imagine the kind of angry responses I would get from you ladies if I were to say something like "Women cry too much" or "Stop pissing and moaning about nothing". I will disagree with Tiffany. Just because a man doesn’t cry, doesn’t post his personal feeling on a internet blog, doesn’t talk about it, doesn’t mean that we are not that hurt and effected. I actually think that guys will be more hurt then women. We may not cry and piss and moan about it. But our insides will be torn asunder. We get hurt, maybe not as often, but when there is something to hurt us, it can cause quite some emotional damage. And just because some of us will “move on” really quick don’t think that he has really moved on. A buddy of mine for example loves this girl that he was with two years ago. He really loves her now. Long story of hurt and betrayal on both parts. And even though he found a new girl a month or so after that was not because he moved on and no longer cares about her (he wants nothing more then to be with her), but more because he needed someone to hold and to feel special. He doesn’t cry about it to all of his friends or tells the entire internet world, but I can see in his eyes that he is still hurt by that girl.

I think that it is very wrong to say that guys aren’t as affected as girls. Imagine the kind of angry responses I would get from you ladies if I were to say something like “Women cry too much” or “Stop pissing and moaning about nothing”.

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