Comments on: And Life Goes On http://www.boscardin.org/2008/and-life-goes-on/ Thu, 09 Sep 2010 04:52:11 +0000 hourly 1 By: Mchael Aulia http://www.boscardin.org/2008/and-life-goes-on/#comment-4064 Mchael Aulia Mon, 20 Oct 2008 05:21:35 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/?p=599#comment-4064 I never know that you are a Vietnamese? (looking at your pic + your name, I thought you're somewhere from Europe, like France or something :)) Congrats on finding someone to love again! I hope my turn is next, one day I never know that you are a Vietnamese? (looking at your pic + your name, I thought you’re somewhere from Europe, like France or something :) )

Congrats on finding someone to love again! I hope my turn is next, one day

]]> By: inkage kitty http://www.boscardin.org/2008/and-life-goes-on/#comment-4059 inkage kitty Sun, 19 Oct 2008 20:14:56 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/?p=599#comment-4059 It's a shame, but also a godsend in a way, that you have been too busy to write. It's good you've found some happiness. None of your posts have really placed me far from my personal bubble, but that is probably because I'm insane. The reason I like reading you is because of your thinking process within your posts. I feel affinity toward it. Anyway, no pressure on writing again. I understand the need for perfection. You do a pretty good job. In terms of the election, those debates were pretty bogus. I think what I hate more is the propaganda spewed out afterward on who "won" and why. I really think that in a lot of cases, the opinions of others influences their decision a lot more than the actual candidate and their responses. Disgusting. Finally, midterms have been stressing me out but the workload is a motivator considering how accomplished I feel after I've completed it all. In response to your question, I think it's good to have a little of both. You can be comfortable with yourself as a person but still be the type that requires a little push forward in that same direction, just to keep you going. Having been completely content pre-boyfriend, I still find it nice to have someone there to reinforce my direction. If this question is really in relation to whether or not you should look for someone to stop you from some newly attained bad-habits (like the smoking, which I think you're too classy-looking for) and a lack of self-confidence, it really depends on you. You're really the person who controls everything, but if psychologically you require the presence of some outside authority to motivate you then that's what you should look for. Although, I always see that situation falling into some kind of resentment toward the person who you're changing for if you suddenly change your personal profile of a "better person". Defining who you want to be first, might be a start. If the definition involves pleasing someone else in any way, then you should try to look for that person you want to please. Are you selfish or selfless? A giver or a taker? Quick and painless (I like to write a lot). I figured I'd comment for once considering I've been an on and off reader. =) It’s a shame, but also a godsend in a way, that you have been too busy to write. It’s good you’ve found some happiness. None of your posts have really placed me far from my personal bubble, but that is probably because I’m insane. The reason I like reading you is because of your thinking process within your posts. I feel affinity toward it. Anyway, no pressure on writing again. I understand the need for perfection. You do a pretty good job.

In terms of the election, those debates were pretty bogus. I think what I hate more is the propaganda spewed out afterward on who “won” and why. I really think that in a lot of cases, the opinions of others influences their decision a lot more than the actual candidate and their responses. Disgusting.

Finally, midterms have been stressing me out but the workload is a motivator considering how accomplished I feel after I’ve completed it all. In response to your question, I think it’s good to have a little of both. You can be comfortable with yourself as a person but still be the type that requires a little push forward in that same direction, just to keep you going. Having been completely content pre-boyfriend, I still find it nice to have someone there to reinforce my direction.

If this question is really in relation to whether or not you should look for someone to stop you from some newly attained bad-habits (like the smoking, which I think you’re too classy-looking for) and a lack of self-confidence, it really depends on you. You’re really the person who controls everything, but if psychologically you require the presence of some outside authority to motivate you then that’s what you should look for. Although, I always see that situation falling into some kind of resentment toward the person who you’re changing for if you suddenly change your personal profile of a “better person”. Defining who you want to be first, might be a start. If the definition involves pleasing someone else in any way, then you should try to look for that person you want to please. Are you selfish or selfless? A giver or a taker?

Quick and painless (I like to write a lot). I figured I’d comment for once considering I’ve been an on and off reader. =)

]]> By: Ashley http://www.boscardin.org/2008/and-life-goes-on/#comment-3960 Ashley Sat, 11 Oct 2008 01:00:35 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/?p=599#comment-3960 haha, yeah the debates are a joke pretty much 100% of the time. Either a candidate says something retarded or they spew bullshit we all know they can't commit to. Well we'll see what happens in November. Should be a ride. Yeah, what is the deal with time? Damn clocks ;) haha, yeah the debates are a joke pretty much 100% of the time. Either a candidate says something retarded or they spew bullshit we all know they can’t commit to. Well we’ll see what happens in November. Should be a ride.

Yeah, what is the deal with time? Damn clocks ;)

]]> By: Julie http://www.boscardin.org/2008/and-life-goes-on/#comment-3924 Julie Mon, 06 Oct 2008 11:40:30 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/?p=599#comment-3924 Good luck on midterms luv. I think one of your recent daily journal posts would have been fitting here, because it was very deep-thought-ish. Oh yea, and definitely the "right" answer is you should find that better person in yourself, but usually we are too lazy to do anything for us, but we work harder when we find someone that makes us want to be better. And and and you'll be 21 on Wednesday! YAY! Good luck on midterms luv. I think one of your recent daily journal posts would have been fitting here, because it was very deep-thought-ish. Oh yea, and definitely the “right” answer is you should find that better person in yourself, but usually we are too lazy to do anything for us, but we work harder when we find someone that makes us want to be better. And and and you’ll be 21 on Wednesday! YAY!

]]> By: Michael http://www.boscardin.org/2008/and-life-goes-on/#comment-3899 Michael Sun, 05 Oct 2008 17:30:28 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/?p=599#comment-3899 As the saying goes, "You can't love anyone else if you don't love yourself." It means, I think, you need to have self-confidence and believe in yourself. As the saying goes, “You can’t love anyone else if you don’t love yourself.” It means, I think, you need to have self-confidence and believe in yourself.

]]> By: fragileheart http://www.boscardin.org/2008/and-life-goes-on/#comment-3892 fragileheart Sun, 05 Oct 2008 03:41:09 +0000 http://www.boscardin.org/?p=599#comment-3892 Damn, I was wondering why you hadn't updated. LOL I didn't know you had another blog! How come you don't have EC on that blog - so I can visit you more often (I'd add you to my Favourites list you know?). Anyway, glad to hear you finally have a case of the happy. You so deserve it :) Cheers! Damn, I was wondering why you hadn’t updated. LOL I didn’t know you had another blog! How come you don’t have EC on that blog – so I can visit you more often (I’d add you to my Favourites list you know?). Anyway, glad to hear you finally have a case of the happy. You so deserve it :)

Cheers!

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