Posted under: Life, Memes, Relationships, Thoughts

I got tagged by Joana and Julie for this one. You’re supposed to copy the entire list of months, but I don’t want the clutter, so I’ll just lead you to a post that has all the other months you’ll need.

Guidelines:

• Mention the person who tagged you and create a link back to them.
• Copy-paste the traits for all the twelve months (see below).
• Pick your month of birth (see below).
• Highlight the traits that apply to you.
• Tag 12 people and let them know by visiting their blogs and leaving a comment for them.
• Let the person who tagged you know when you’ve done it!

As for tagging, well, how about I tag the first twelve people (who haven’t done this yet) that comment on this blog? I would choose people, but most of them have already been tagged.

OCTOBER: Loves to chat. Loves those who loves them. Loves to take things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care of what others think. Emotional. Decisive. Strong clairvoyance. Loves to travel, the arts and literature. Touchy and easily jealous. Concerned. Loves outdoors. Just and fair. Spendthrift. Easily influenced. Easily loses confidence. Loves children.

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Tags: boyfriend, Christmas Eve, comfort, dating, dreams, emotional pain, happiness, heartbroken, love, memories, pain, past, physical pain, pleasures, relationship

Posted under: Thoughts

Do you ever wonder sometimes if the pain you feel is just your mental response? It’s kind of like taking a placebo. Well, you don’t know about the fact that it’s a placebo, but when you take it, whether or not it truly is helpful, you feel better.

So my question is this: Is the pain you feel all in your head? Does it really hurt or is it because you happen to be thinking about it? How do you know or how do you distinguish the difference between the two? Do you need to be bleeding or are you already bleeding inside your emotions? Why does it hurt where it does?

Most importantly: how do you stop it? How do you control it? Do you numb yourself to the point where you don’t feel anything else? Where nothing else seems to matter and all you do is go about your day, put a smile on your face for the masses, and then go home, feeling the same empty feeling?

So, is pain just a mental thing? Is there a placebo for the emotional pain you put upon yourself?

If there is, then where do I find one?

Tags: emotional pain, pain, physical pain