Posted under: Life

Sometimes, like now, I don’t know where I’m going. I don’t know what I have to look forward to, I don’t know what is going to happen to me. As a Libra, that is hard to handle and to grasp. I can’t stand not knowing what my future holds for me. Who am I going to meet? Am I going to meet the right people? Will he ever come? Will I be alone? Will I just end up settling? Can I get the ideal? Will I find the ideal?

It’s just all so… difficult to process. When one future ends, how do you begin the new one? When what you thought was going to happen doesn’t, then where do you start? How do you know what you truly want? Do you want a warm body regardless of who it is? Do you want the warm body? What if what you thought you wanted isn’t what you want? Or perhaps what you want is something that you can no longer have and so now, you have to change those wants? What if you don’t want to change those wants? Should you change them? What if you change them only to find out that it was the wrong decision?

Coming from a family who was always driven to not make mistakes, I don’t want to make one now, but everywhere I turn, I can see mistakes happening. If I go one way, then my mistake would be to lose something great. If I turn another way, my mistake would be to miss something great. Either way, I can see a loss and I don’t want to make either decision until I know for certain that I can’t make any mistakes.

But this is life and no matter what, there are always going to be mistakes and from that, I have to learn how to be able to work from those, right? But, like I said, I don’t want to make any whatsoever. I want to be able to take from others’ mistakes and apply them to my life so I don’t have to do the same thing. But how do you know which one to learn from?

It’s just all so confusing and as each day goes by, everything seems to get fuzzier.

If everything is fuzzy, then how can I see the beginning?

Tags: confusion, decisions, future, fuzziness, ideals, Life, loss, love, mistakes, paths, present, roads, uncertainty

Posted under: Thoughts

Have you ever wondered what life would have been like had you not been at a particular place at a particular time with a particular person/group? Or even when it’s the right moment to bring something up, either a good or bad topic? The thing is, how do you know when? How do you know when it’s the right time for everything to be out in the open, when it’s the perfect moment to tell the other person how you could possibly feel?

When do you make that first move? Is it the right move? Are you in the right place? What if you make it and it ruins everything you’ve worked for? How do you tell the other person? Do you just say it? Do you make a special occasion of it? Do you just wing it? What goes on in your head? The other person’s head?

Or perhaps the right moment will just come when it’s ready to come?

Tags: fate, future, past, present